Obviously, the invitation worked this time. :-) Yay!
Okay, now my rant. Why after 5 months of my spending the night with Doug a couple of times a week, does he decide to tell me tonight that he doesn't sleep well when I stay over, because the bed isn't big enough? Point in case, I was there last night, had no intention of staying, when I got ready to go home, he asked me in a sad little voice why I wasn't staying? So I stayed. Then tonight he's griping because he didn't sleep well. It just irritates me. I know it's not a big deal, but it pissed me off. Then he says if we ever get to the point that we are sleeping together every night we'll have to get a bigger bed. I thought we already had that plan! Apparently not. I was just saying tonight how I felt secure and that things were in a good place and then he has to go and say this crap.
Okay, no more ranting. Good night.
2 comments:
Boys! If he didn't want you to stay over, they why the heck did he ask you to? Talk about mixed messages.
Honestly though, I wouldn't feel too badly about it. When Josh moved to Columbia and I started sleeping over, I hated it. I didn't sleep well at all and was always cranky the next day. It got to the point that I was making excuses NOT to sleep over just so I could get some rest. I was really worried that I would never be able to sleep with him, or anyone for that matter. I didn't want to tell him though because I didn't want to hurt his feelings.
Anyhow, he got a bigger bed when he moved into the trailer, and it solved the problem immediately.
I know you are right and it's nothing to get upset about. I'm sure he's totally unaware that he said anything to upset me. I guess we just have to start looking for a bigger bed.
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