From :
Hellerich, Mary K
Sent :
Tuesday, March 8, 2005 10:14 PM
To :
"Annie Mathes"
Subject :
RE: Old Formals
Most of my old bridesmaid dresses are UGLY.. so I don't care who takes
them as long as someone does.. thanks for the heads up Leah.. I have
been trying to find somewhere to take them with all this moving I am
doing.. I have some nice ones too though so if any of you knows anyone
that needs them let me know .. I have about 12 to 15!
I bolded that part. But I know she said it on purpose. Why was it even necessary? Why was it necessary to reply to all like it was some kind of forum? Even Amanda at work thought it was passive aggressive and that was before I even said anything (she was reading over my shoulder).
It really shouldn't bother me and it isn't so much that they are together that gets to me (because that would certainly be a case of the pot calling the kettle black), but that our friendship (if we were ever to even have one again) would never be the same. There will always be that wonder and that doubt. And Lord knows, we'd never trust the other with our boyfriends/husbands.
Anyway, I feel better now that I have posted. It helps to get this stuff out, you know?
3 comments:
It was either unthinking or intentionally hurtful (I'm voting for the latter) to put a comment like that in an email she was sending to you. Either way, it doesn't surprise me in the least. Mary was never one for social graces, and always seemed like she might be a bit on the vindictive side.
And she sent that email to everyone? I sure hope it wasn't sent to anyone who had her as a bridesmaid!
Some people, like Mary, feel the need to constantly remind everyone how happy they are. But all they are doing is just trying to convince themselves they are.
How strange... my comment isn't showing up on the main page...
Okay, of course it is after I complain about it!
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